Most Helpful Girl
realistically it may be okay if 1 party won't give the other sex or withholds a certain sexual practice and why hurt the other person when you don't have to... now there's cases of just being a pig or greedy... but i think it's okay if 1 party withholds sex like the person who wants to be a virgin when they're married... most mormon guys aren't virgins but they have to say they are.
Most Helpful Guy
Its how you perceive it and how you go about things. My personal answer is its never ok. Any human with empathy would agree with me.
But if you want to view it as ok, accept that you have sociopathic tendancies. In a sense, its not a lie unless truth is found. There is a secret on lying is when you convince yourself its the truth. I use it on cops all the time. Its about how you deliver the message and how you mask it. Much easier for sociopaths to master.