I'm a guy, I have intense strong feelings for a girl, we never dated (Just a crush).
We go to school together, used to be friends, I really fell for her but she rejected me (Unclear). (She didn't tell me she had a boyfriend)
She gave me mixed signals, And I don't know what really happened.
This happened last year.
This year, she is dating a new guy. She got a really good job...
I'm a wreck... An emotional wreck... I never had any emotions before I met her, now I can't concentrate on anything.
She is stuck in my life, she is part of my social circle and lives right by my house and I see her very often.
Please help me not have these feelings anymore... There as so intense, we were never even in a relationship.
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This is called "oneitis" or "love" by people with different views :)
We don't choose our emotionability, like we don't choose our intelligence and beauty (and any other feature of ours).
If she lives nearby your place and is in your social circle, leaving thoughts of her behind becomes harder. You need to find another girl/woman you like much.
Meanwhile, try to make other friends (another circle of friends, maybe?), and engage in as many activities, hobbies and tasks as you can.
You can even find something (not someone) you love to do.