I am not mentioning sex here because if the above criteria r satisfied n we get along through that it's normal n will b easy to open with sex..
Like with that gurl above (at work), I felt connected, n felt at ease with her that I showed some caring besides she is already married on paper n now she is preparing for religious wedding. Because she is already married on paper, I can only express my respect, appreciation, caring as she knows it. But since we had a chat on Friday as I asked if I could hv a walk with her during lunch time n walk her to bus stop to have a nice chat as we don't do it. She may b talking n laughing with everyone, but when it comes to me, she will either Skype me rarely talking about work. Even on Skype I can't open a general conversation. This really annoys n makes me very sad.
On Friday she refused me walking her to bus stop etc because, as she told me, people in our company do gossip a lot. Even once there was that guy who asked me "if me n her having an affair". i was annoyed. She even said, once confirmed, she will move to another department in the company which is based in da city.
One thing I can't understand is, there is a guy who lives in the south, they both go home together. She often comes meet her during lunch time n go hv a sit down to take air or hv a walk.
That's what i want from her. But she prevented me.. Why is that? Other guys can but not me...
The way I describe what i see in girls is also with single girls, only 2 gals I felt like I am feeling. With my ex girlfriend (who is married by now- that time didn't earn big money). This gal at work. Both I connected easily.