Most Helpful Girl
It was a team effort. He shouldn't have gone off grid and then acted like it was your fault, but you also shouldn't have threatened him to make him treat you right. To a guy, that's an indicator that you're not as nice as they thought or even that you may be emotionally terrifying. You guys owe each other an apology, and with what you've told us, I suggest apologizing to him first. It'll show him you're willing to put aside your pride and if he doesn't reciprocate, then burn that bridge if you get to it.