Why can't girls make moves? It seems to me that it could go either way.
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we are shy creatures. we think guys are more confident. plus we don't want to get rejected.1
Not all girls are like that.
I asked my boyfriend out, for example. And we probably initiate oral/PIV sex an equal amount of times. Before I started dating him, I would often make the first move during hookups while clubbing and such, too.
I don't expect that. I've accepted that most guys won't make the first move. So I make the first move. Although if a guy did make the first move I would say yes to him because he had the guts to ask me out, unless he was rich, clingy, mean, attached, or controlling.
I made the first move with my boyfriend and all my friends who are girls actually made the first move in their relationships too.
I guess, for me anyways, i like the guy to be in control... sometimes im too scared to make moves especially at the beginning but once i know they like me back etc i do make first moves
That's how their moms did it. Because granny said it.
Its a sign of confidence/assertiveness/dominance
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