If so how did that happen?
My boyfriend of 4.5 years and I broke up, we both decided we were better off this way, every now and then he will text me or i'll text him but its mostly to see how each of us is doing. I know we definetly won't get back together but I would like to think we can at least be somewhat civil to eachother. What do you think?
The break up wasn't particularly horrible, we were engaged for 2 years but we called that off a few months before we actually broke up.
Most Helpful Guy
Yes. And she's been my BFF for years. I know. Sounds odd but sometimes it's best to not be in a romantic relationship. Makes things easier1
Most Helpful Girl
I'm still friends with my ex. Once I had gotten over the hurt of the break up, I could still see that he cared about me as a friend and I do care about him too and we both want what's best for each other. There's nothing wrong with catching up every now and then. Especially when you've spent such a huge part of your life with someone who was once very special to you. It would be more strange if you just completely cut them out and pretended like nothing ever happened.1