My husband thinks I was having an affair with the guy. Now he lost all respect for me and says he can never be close to me again. I have tried to apologize many times but he just hates me and seems to have moved on.
it has been 5 weeks, will he ever be able to forgive me? What should I do to prove to him I will never let anything like that happen again? How long should I wait before I give up and move on? We have 4 kids so I really want to work this out.
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Did that guy do anything with you, sexually, or just take off your pants, and make it seem like you did, because he was too drunk to get hard?
Either way, if you didn't consent, it is sexual assault, at least!
If I was your husband, I would be angry that you put yourself in that place, with him, but I would be having the police investigate, and maybe press charges.
It's a tough thing to 'forgive'. Why would he ever trust you again? What can you do to restore his trust in you, and your relationship?