Can someone explain her reasoning? I have a lot of hobbies, one of which was bombing downhill on longboards. She didn't want me doing that anymore, but I kept doing it anyway, because I've been doing it for a while. She broke up with me because of that. This was years ago, but who was wrong and who was right here?
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I can sympathize with her. When you really care for someone, watching them do something dangerous when they don't have to is terrifying, where you really just can't bear to watch. It's a really awful feeling to have.
I understand that it's something you've been doing for a while, but honestly I think in this situation you should have compromised with her and did it less often out of consideration for her feelings. Your fault if you didn't compromise with her, her fault if she wants you to stop all together (you can't completely change someone).1