Hi all, I have been married for 10 years with this guy.. it was a completely arranged marriage by my parents ( we don't have the option of dating or love marriage in my country/religion) I am in the US now and have a kid with him ( the kid is US citizen) so I think if I leave him I may not have visa problems.. not sure though. But my issue is no one in his family including him respects me or my feelings , I am treated like a dirt.. I put up with all that all these years now I am working and pretty confident and independent and have confidence if I leave him I can survive ( but my parents are totally against this and will not support me).. I started showing disinterest in him few weeks back and he has gotten a clue and started to say I love u and trying to help.. but I know that once I am back to normal he will go back to being himself.. if I tell him I am done with him he will make a big scene and make me quit my job and threatens to send me back to my home country.. how can I subtly let him know I am done wth him without any problems?
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Here's the thing... since you are living in the US now, he cannot send you back to your home country. You are a free woman--not his property, and not under his control. Keep your job, and file for divorce. Ask for joint custody of your child. Apply for an extended work visa if you need to.1
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