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They say when getting over a break up it takes half the time you spent with that person to fully get over it. So if you guys dated for about 3 1/2 years. It could take anywhere between 1 1/2 years to get over that person. Depending on how quick you heal, how forgiving you are and so forth. Thinking about them from time to time is normal. 3 years is a long time. You can't just forget about someone you spent 3 years with that easily. I have an ex I dated 4 years ago, we ended on mutual terms. However it's been a long while later and I do think of the good times with him from time to time. But I also am completely over him now.