- Probably not, usually it's just lust or infatuation that they were feeling not love
- Probably, it is fairly common to stop loving someone after you've fallen in love.
- No, there is no such thing as falling out of love. Real love is eternal.
- Yes, love will always eventually fade.
Most Helpful Guy
Its possible love is love no matter what... love is not ALWAYS forever. and you will never be in love just one time. but you will find the one love that lasts forever. but that doesn't mean they werent in love before. so yes if someone has fallen out of love, then yes the were really in love in the beginning.
Most Helpful Girl
For me... I'll try to explain the best way I can.
I always learnt that falling in love you can't control but staying in love (ie putting in the effort etc to be with your partner and make a life together no matter good days or bad and working 50/50 so you're both happy) is a choice. A choice that not many people are willing to do these days.
It's all about oh you had a fight? Better leave. Oh you're unhappy for a few weeks due to life circumstances in your relationship? Better leave. Oh that guy/girl over there looks like they'd be a much better partner than what you have already? Leave.. you'll get someone else but you'll keep having the same problems because you didn't stick around to work it out...
relationships should only ever truly end when bad days out number the good.