If so how long were you together? And are you still in contact? With all this being said should I send him a friend request on fb
Most Helpful Guy
Yes. But I also think about girls who just didn't work out, or girls that are friends... just in different ways, obviously.
I generally don't dwell, or think of them a lot.
Am I in contact with any of them? Girlfriends, not really. I talk to one of them maybe once a year, if that... mostly small talk, asking about family, that sort of thing... civil, but not going out of my way for her.
He's probably an ex for a good reason... a lot of exes are not exes just because it didn't work out, or you both are too busy to keep it going, or someone moved... if that's the case, ok... friend him if you want. But if there was bad blood or something like that, then just leave it alone.
I'm not Facebook friends with any ex. They don't need to know who I'm talking to, or not talking to... one ex had issues with jealousy... even with platonic friends. I don't need her being able to check up on me or try to scare off other girls... no. If there are feelings, even in the back of the mind, you both don't need that temptation (again, unless the breakup WAS "friendly" and just based on a circumstance neither of you could control).
Has he friended you? No? Then wonder why... he is either trying to avoid you, can't find you, or not interested in a Facebook friendship. So don't be so quick to friend him. Just my two cents.
Most Helpful Girl
My breakup is quote recent.. 2 months ago. We had a relation for 7 months. After two weeks we broke up he started this girl which he is now in a relationship with. I am still heartbroken. I don't know what to do. He was my best friend. I want him to be happy but it hurts me that he moved on soooo fast. His reason? He thought I was too clingy even though he always messaged me to come over. He says he still cares about me but really showing that is not... I asked him to not send me pictures of his girlfriend but he still does. All of the friends I hung around with were his so now I am crazy lonely. Ofcourse I also did a lot of things that I can approve but he doesn't want to see what he did wrong. And he did a lot wrong. I always thought things would change but no. When I decided to see a psychologic and felt like things would change, he broke up with me. I still love him. Everything just hurts.0