Most Helpful Guy
You have to acknowledge that you did your best but he just wasn't down, so there was nothing else you could do. At least he didn't cheat on you, or even manage to cheat on you?
In terms of moving on, time is the greatest healer. Don't rush yourself, but also don't sit around crying over him. It's important to try to carry on living your life. Do things to distract yourself, go out and enjoy life. It's always hard at the beginning but if you allow yourself to move on then you will be able to in no time.
Most Helpful Girl
That sucks as to how he did you. But honestly you listed that he has no car and no job, Is that really someone that you can see yourself with for long. Usually men like that end up dating someone who can help them out. He is no longer a headache for you anymore. Now he is someone else problem. You may not see it now, but believe me from what I am reading about the guy you are not missing anything with this guy. He wasted your time. Its going to take months to get over him because the breakup is fresh. It took me months to get over someone i was talking too. It was not easy, but as each day goes by you will start to notice that you will get hours without thinking until it becomes days and then months.