Technically, I believe her to be a love avoidant and narcissist.
So I ask, what does chemistry mean to you? Because it seems that our friendship and attraction to each other is off the charts, until she says there's no chemistry, and walks.
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Chemistry is a term referring to that attraction that goes beyond being purely physical/emotional to someone, but almost literally puts the desire to want nothing more than to rip their pants off and have your way with them regardless.
I don't see what 'chemistry' has to do with your story, nor how any of the behaviors you listed that your ex had would make her narcissistic/avoidant.
She's playing you like a fiddle because you're willing to give her sex when she wants it, and she knows you'll come back to her whenever she wants it again. Why don't you just tell her what YOU want rather than allowing to do as she pleases then feeling like calling her names is okay. When, in reality, nothing's stopping you from telling her to fuck off.
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