Most Helpful Guy
If u hit yourself w a hammer, and u find out is a painful experience, would u hit yourself again?
No matter how much u love your partner, if he/she cheat on u again, will it hurt?
Some people suffer because have no options. Like parents w a sick child. But some other suffer willingly. Like those who forgives instead of learning.
Maybe is just me, I'm a prideful person. Pride alone can make or destroy ur self esteem.
If u think u can rebuild your trust in ur partner and tolerate living with the uncertainty, then go ahead. Love pulls crazy stunts like this everyday, why not?
But not me. One hit w the hammer is good enough for me.
Most Helpful Girl
I did, because he was honest about it and I could tell that he was really trying to fix the problems that led to it happening. I didn't want to let go of ten years and my best frien without a fight. I'm glad that I made that choice, because I'm happier now than I was before... our relationship is a lot stronger and more meaningful.