fast forward to yesterday, we met up for breakfast and were completely normal until I brought up the issue again. He said it was unfair on me to be strung along like this and he could see it was affecting me. He said he was genuinely confused and needed time but didn't want time because he felt good when we were together. All his mates agree that he's become a better person since we started dating. He can be incredibly stubborn.
My question is... we share the same group of friends, both of us do not have many friends outside the group. I feel like the breakup was completely random as well. It was spurred by what I was feeling and I honestly feel like I've lose my soulmate. He told me I was the one, I was his soulmate, his best friend and his girlfriend. We were perfect for each other. This Saturday I will be bumping into him, how do I reel him back in and change his mind about what's happened.