Its been literally 7 months since my ex and I broke up and I just can't seem to get him off of my mind. I've tried EVERYTHING. I went out, spoke to old and new friends, listened to music, wrote poems, went shopping, worked a lot of the time, played my game; and at the end of the day I find myself STILL obsessing over my ex. Just everywhere I go reminds me of him. He said hurtful things at me and I did as well and even tho we've said everything we could to each other I still love him. I miss talking to him, I miss just about everything that has to do with him.
I see little reminders of him in any place like his favorite color or the name of his dog, or even a look alike of him and his mom. Its weird and its starting to freak me out. For 4 months after we broke up I tried begging him to talk to me, and he just wouldn't, he'd curse at me and call me stupid names and just said "f*** out of my life"..which I found to be very hurtful but yet I still can't leave him alone. But I did, I left him alone for 2 months, I want to contact him but I know what he'll say and I don't know. I just wish he'd give me another chance.
I cry before I fall asleep just thinking about him, I have crazy dreams about him. I've never felt this way before and I don't know what to do. He just disappeared on me completely. Not even his dust is visible. He has a best friend who has a sister who he liked before, she comes to my store and I'm so tempted to ask her how he's doing; but I don't wanna seem desperate. But every time I look at her I see him, maybe its because they're friends I don't know for sure. But I wish for the day he talks to me and even asks me to be with him maybe one day; but neither of that will happen knowing him. He's stubborn as hell.
I just want help, I need answers...something.
I don't want to bother my friends and tell them the same story over and over again, but I want advice. please.
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some of the things you have tried are probably making it worse...one of them being listening to music...now unless its heavy or death metal, then I don't see how that is going to help. music is usually involving some sort of pain involving love of some sort. so listening to music isn't always the best thing to do. poetry as well goes hand in hand. music is pretty much poetry anyways. my advice would be to stay away from that stuff, and ask for help from yur friends. tell them you still aren't over him, and you need their help. if they really care about u, they will be there for u. and they have most likely had heartbreak themselves, so they might give you pointers that helped them get over an ex.0
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