Most Helpful Girl
Not at all-- if she was important to you, it's normal to think of her from time to time. Moving on doesn't mean totally forgetting or not caring about a person anymore.
Most Helpful Guy
No, it's not pathetic and not even unusual. Pathetic would be if you were still crying into your pillow and still putting your life on hold. If you are living your life then you are not being in any way pathetic. You just have fond memories.