My ex reached out to me after a whole month of no contact- all innocent stuff like just saying hi and jokes and cute animal videos but he didn't really keep the convo going. I found something funny today and sent it to him. Is this ok? We were childhood friends for 15 years before we ever dated.
Most Helpful Guy
u two where friends before a couple.
can't be together anymore?
fine, u can always return to being friends. why not?
was he a good friend before? is he a good person? is he a funny guy? etc, etc...
humans are social beings. we work, think and behave better when in groups.
if u feel he is worth keeping as a friend, then go for it! why not?
just be open about it. let him know what u want and what u can give as a friend. be clear about ur intentions. not hard at all!
Most Helpful Girl
Yes its okay if you know that you are not going to break down on him. You have been through a month of healing and grieving and dont let thst time go by in vain by someone who isn't ready to committ.1