they are both far far away and id never meet them and they are just freinds, swear they are nothing serious.
Most Helpful Girl
I'd say to work on improving your FB security but honestly, it sounds like this girl needs to go. It sounds like her mission from the very start of your guys' relationship was to frame you as the 'bad guy' after she pulls controlling/manipulative shit like hacking your FB and using shit she found only to paint herself as the 'victim'.
Most Helpful Guy
She shouldn't be breaking into your accounts. Most likely she is guessing your password or you have it saves in your browser.
I suggest dumping her, she is snooping through your stuff. This shows she doesn't trust you, so the relationship is almost certainly doomed.