read this: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a35497-exes-they-are-ancient-history-why-even-care-or-bother
it shouldn't be that hard if it's long distance lol just being honest. he's probably over It so, do you
Well yes, it is a lot easier than a normal breakup, but the pain is still there. Not having any contact with a person who was there for you for 6 months can be painful
Have an opinion?
By cutting all contact with him.
find someone nearby.
Just try focusing on other things to take your mind off of it, you're gonna think ab things from time to time but after a while you'll feel better and wonder why you ever felt down in the first place
You have to focus on something else
The thing is, i do. I enjoy my life and try to get busy and it works, but then it just hits me out of nowhere
Trust me I know what your going through. I was the same way, but you have to stop remembering the good memories. And don't beat up yourself
Would you mind sharing me your story? Maybe just a glimpse of it.
Well, I met this guy on a social media app called Instagram and I private message him one particular day then the rest was history. Our long distance lasted for 2 years off and on even though I was still in love with him after we broke up. I was in the 8th grade when I started talking to him then during my summer break I found out he had another girlfriend and he clearly moved on. I was so heartbroken that I thought I wasn't good enough to keep him and he didn't see my full love for him which took me a few months to get over him. I couldn't wake up without thinking about our good memories over the phone, late night talks, laughter, and the bond we had. Sadly, he is still with his girlfriend and I have fully healed myself by teaching myself to let things go
Going through the same thing?
It makes you depressed
really bad like you said not matter what I'm doing it can't keep busy I really wanna message her but I don't know I don't know what to do
I just find stuff to do
im glad you are finding ways
Really am and it wasn't a break up it was a" stop replying and calling"
so talk to him message him
It's comforting to know i'm not alone in this. I feel so lost
I feel the same way i feel numb
still not sure if to message or not or give her her Space
Give him space
how long is enough
all good lol
But if she doesn't reply then it's best to move on
I dont want to honestly I wanna fly to go see her in person
What do you think she will say
I don't know i just dont know...
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