When we kiss he is still soft so I'm wondering if he is gay? Guys I need ur help
You should leave him immediately
Ask him to be sure
Have an opinion?
maybe he just doesn't get aroused from kissingif he was really gay, i dont think he would be okay in kissing a girl
That's straight to u? I feel like I'm dating an alien
then dont date himfind someone else, plenty of fish
I never met any one off the net b4
you need to do something more.. many are late Bloomer
did you try anything except kissing him?
Yes, we have done more than just kissing
what all things have you done?
No, that's not how it works, guys aren't guaranteed to get hard during a kiss.
My last boyfriend did...
You think that guys are programmed to lose all control at the slightest bit of arousal and you'reprepared to rationalize his yelling as being typical for men? You didn't have the best relationship with your father, didn't you. 😑
We're Jewish so yeah I did have a good relationship w dad but mom is white trash n tried to take me away from him
N I get off to solo male porn so I'm pretty happy...
woh... just coz he is soft means he is gay... what logic is that?
don't judge so quickly
But he is soft? N yells at me a lot
you probably need to leave him because you deserve better
Do u think aggression is normal for a man?
Because I don't but lately he's been making me think it is
yes but if you have not did or said anything wrong to make him yell you need to leave him
I dunno... Now I'm not sure... I wanna cry
you deserve better
Maybe he needs more than just kissing
grab it or suck on it
My first ex girlfriend, was a complete turn on but due to anxiety i had problems getting mine hard. Maybe that is his problem hard to say.
U think it's anxiety? Why would u get anxiety?
Well, anxiety happens when we least expect it plus one of my diagnosis is anxiety.Yes your boyfriend could have anxiety. My ex girlfriend held my penis and it wentlimp on her and yes i liked having it touched. It was all head issues with me.
Oh okay... see I get off really easily... n he doesn't... he says it takes a lot to concentrate in sex n he likes famous gay men n says he can tell when a man is gay ...
Well, all you can do is ask him and communicate more often. I agree you don't want be with a guy whose living a lie and could be gay. He needs to be upright and honest with you, i would lay the cards on the table. Tell him it's frustrating you and giving you ill feelings.
I've already tried he gets angry when I ask he is gay n he takes more of compliment when I ask is he is bisexual
Yes i see that usually happens but you shouldn't have to live a lie. If he doesn't want open up about him self than maybe be best to move on.
You're Welcome :)
What happens when you grab it?
It's still soft
Takes about five mins
Can you make him cum? Can he get you off?
Yeah but he doesn't cum when I cum n the other guys do
Sounds like his problem not yours.
Yeah, n I'm happy n brings me down... thanks
He wants to have kids n the thought of having one shrills me
Then you shouldn't be thinking of having one. And not with limpy.
I thinking he's gay now... He can't get it up when he's drunk... I need to stay away from this man... I also kno that some get off to their own pearl jam n that's what keeps them up.. N so many people are watching straight porn... Which isn't one person on its own... I'm so scared to have a baby in this world... We'll I guess w the wrong guy... The right guy compliments me... I have a lot of guys that I could call up n still date that r normal
Dont have a baby for the wrong reasons. Find a good daddy a marry him first. Then maybe
You might wanna try more than kissing...You can also just ask him outright
Seriously just kissing doesn't turn a man on
My last boyfriend was turned on through kissing
With my current girlfriend I am haha. But you are right it doesn't always work that way.
Every person is well umm let's see DIFFERENT.. never compare current boyfriend to ex boyfriend. If he found out man he'd be really upset and think you still want your ex
I still have my ex... He wants me so bad n he straight
You need to cut it with the new guy or the ex. You need to pick one or tell them about each other
My ex know about the guy
No he just moisturisers 😂