I have a guy friend who is going through a tough breakup. He's really struggling and I'm really concerned about him. There are 3 children involved as well. To complicate things, I do have feelings for him, BUT I have absolutely no intentions of taking advantage of the situation. I genuinely want to be there for him. His happiness and well being is my first priority. I just don't know what to say, how to support him, etc. I'm afraid I'll say the wrong things. Any advice?
Most Helpful Guy
just listen to what he says and how he feels and try to understand. breakups are complicated and there's always two sides of the story so don't get too involved but just be there to support him no matter what.0
Most Helpful Girl
Just listen and do as you would with a female. Offer him lunch and just listen and talk. Remind him life isn't over and you will help in anyway shape or form.0