when someone you considered to be the love of your life shatters your heart, how do you get over it?
I feel somewhat lost, i don't have the energy for anything anymore. I've been in bed for about 2 weeks now and i just can't do anything. My whole life feels like it's falling apart :(
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Me and my ex boyfriend broke up almost a year ago now and I still have feelings for him. We can't be together since we live 12-18h away from each other with flight. The thing is, you either learn to live with a broken heart or the time heals. It takes longer time for some people and some people rather be alone and others the opposite. You should not hinder the heartbreak from letting you do fun stuff like hanging out with girl friends, family or missing out on activities. I'm not gonna tell you what you should do since we all handle things differently. You'll probably find out how you're gonna move on yourself. A tip that worked for me was to find a motivation to keep myself distracted from thinking about my ex. I focused on myself and my well being and I still do today. I just recently started going out with friends again, although it's not often. My point is, you're not alone, you just gotta find your motivation and start working towards that and by time you'll make progress! But allow yourself to take your time by the way I think it's great that you're starting to become aware of what's happening around you and that you actually wanna make a change. That somehow shows that you're motivated or willing to find a way to get over your heartbreak. Best of luck!1