Most Helpful Guy
It is over and nothing that happens to him now will affect the quality of your life. If you are still thinking about him, he is controlling a part of your life and you are allowing it to happen. You need to walk away from it. Learn every lesson that you can, use it to make yourself a better, wiser person and a better partner for the next "contestant." Then, let go of all those feelings and regain your peace. Do what is good for you. As Rabbi Hillel said, "If you are not for yourself, who else should be?"
Most Helpful Girl
I thought this but now see it differently.. see question.. " You know how to heal when an ex does you wrong & really trying, but it's just not working.. Thoughts? How do you/did you cope? "
Facebook means nothing and I just realised this.. It could be a coping mechanism, it could be just surface or it could be for real.
But he treated you like crap ( see question)..
He has that in him so he'll do it to someone else eventually.. I think Karma works in one way or another. No one gets off Scott free forever.
Just don't let his way of treating you stop who you are, how you react and treat others (Majority of the time weak, cowardly men treat you badly to relinquish their guilt.. it's like a way of convincing themselves so they don't feel guilt)
.. He'll get his.