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I was in a situation , unfortunately like this. My close guy friend fell for me. He dished out a lot of hints and clues but poor me was oblivious. I only saw him as a friend and when he asked me straight out, I told him this.
Anyways, it was more than love, it was lust, it was obsession and hate and anger (from turning him down). He eventually blocked me , deleted my number and avoided any means of communication to get over me. I went along because I really valued our friendship above all.
we ceased talking for 6 months then resumed. Our friendship isn't the same but it will take time and tides to get back to where we once were as friends. I am patient and willing.
Anyways, its messy when you get or try to get involved with your BFF. Sometimes it works, sometimes not but when it ends you lose more than a Gf/Bf but a long time friend. Best thing to do is to give it time; baby steps.
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