If you are not dating the next chick yet, why don't you reconsider your break up decision?

not all guys go and sleep with a chicky right after breakup. specially if cared about the girl.

but if not dating anyone yet, why don't they give it a second thought that their breakup decision might have been wrong choice in the heat of argument? they disappear as if they weren't in the wold at all!


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What Guys Said 1

  • Typically a breakup isn't a heat of the moment decision. The "dumper" usually spends time (days, weeks or even months) getting prepared to actually take the next step in ending the relationship. That next step may occur in the middle of a fight or some other event, but I would wager he had thought about it long before. Clearly he has chosen to move on from your relationship and you should do the same.


What Girls Said 1

  • Maybe they know that it was the right decision for them, and/or want to enjoy being single for awhile. Not everyone feels the need to be in a relationship with someone and bounce from person to person, and not everyone is willing to be in a relationship with someone who isn't right for the, even if they care for that person, and even if the alternative is being alone.

    Being single for awhile is probably the best solution after a break-up. It gives you time to think about the situation, decide what you really want out of a partner and relationship, and re-connect with yourself as an individual rather than as part of a couple. Not to mention that going back to your ex, if you don't want to be with them anymore, is dishonest and unfair to both yourself and your ex and would likely be giving them a false sense of hope. If you broke up with your ex, there's probably a good reason for it. Plus, being single gives you the chance to meet other people (who likely wouldn't show interest in you if you were already with someone, and who you wouldn't be able to show interest in unless you broke up with your ex again, further hurting them).


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