Most Helpful Guy
Yes I would avoid a location if I knew an ex would be there. Depends on the ex. Some I'd actually like to visit with. (Not that I have that many ex's... LOL)
I had to laugh when I ran into an ex at an event. The day before the event, a co-worker asked me if there was any chance that this ex would be there. I said it wasn't local and there wouldn't be any way that she'd even know about it. Lo and behold, there she was. I tried talking to her and she was being weird. I texted my co-worker right away and said that I could not believe that she was there and that she was being weird. Monday at work I had to fill her in on it... LOL
Most Helpful Girl
If I want to go somewhere, I go there. That's true even in the most deeply committed relationship -- trust is a thing, after all -- so, obviously it will also be true OUTSIDE a relationship. (How ridiculous would that be, if some boy had more control over my whereabouts as an EX-boyfriend than as a boyfriend? Smh)
If someone is gna back off... well, it's gna be him. <3 I LOVE emotionally loaded conflict. That's the fuel of life itself bby.