I broke up with my girlfriend a week ago. We dated for 3 years , we really loved each other, but as time passed we made a lot of mistakes that we couldn't forget or forgive. So we broke up. But we stayed friends, because both of us are good people. So, she says "I'm looking for work, can you ask your business place if they are hiring people or not?" And I say "Yeah , sure". And I did ask. Am I being used or she just asks for my help. Should I stop helping her. People are saying "Stop helping her, she's using you, she will think that you can't leave her, you always think about her. She will ask for more." And this makes me nervous. Is it true?