I've been seeing a man for 2 months now and he is on the process of divorce. Please don't give me lectures that it's a bad idea because i'm aware of that and i'm still open on seeing other people and i am always for my own good. We always have a good time and enjoy each other's company and can have long talks pretty much about everything. He says that i've swept off his feet and that he loves me. but every now and then he says he worries that i get involved with the "drama" of his divorce/marriage. I totally get that and i don't ever start a conversation about it unless he talks about it. I know women/men getting through a divorce will have a hard time especially after it's final. It's a hard process and requires a long time of self exploration and healing. I feel that he is sincere and truly cares about me. I know he wants me so badly. But what does it mean when he says he is guilty and odd about not being able to treat me the way he wanted to? Guilty about not being able to give his best and worried for not seeing a real reasonable outcome anytime soon? I don't ask or give ultimatum for what we have. I understand his situation (divorce) but why does he say that?
Dating someone going through divorce?
I gained weight after being cheated on, I feel so insecure, what can I do? Why are "divorces" so prevalent these days? What do you think is the most common reason for divorce? Should I just give up on an emotionally unavailable man? What's the longest it took you to get over someone? Are you a child of divorce? And do you love differently because of it?
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