What was the cause of the break up?
How long did it take you to get over it?
Did you take certain actions to get over it?
Lastly, how did it feel when when you were all better?
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when I was 15 I fell hard over my first real relationship. he told me all the things that I wanted to here... he told me that I was the only girl who had ever helped him change from a druggie into a person who cares about living, he said I was the only one for him and no one could change that fact. we dated for over two years, he kept his charade up the whole time until the night before our two year anniversary... I was cleaning his room while he was at work and found the box. it said love notes on the side so I was curious to see if he had kept all of mine that I had written him... I was stupid... inside were a ton of notes from other girls, used condom wrappers, a bong, some razor blades, and a small bag of weed. I realized that I had been dating a lier and I broke up with him when he came home, he got mad and said horrible things, he basically confirmed my worst fears, he told me he had cheated on me multiple times and he started doing drugs again and he said that it was all my fault that he was a horrible person. I never talked to him again... now two years later I'm completly over him and I'm completely happy with my life I'm going to college, I have an amazing boyfriend, and I'm living my life. it took me a full year to forget him completely I changed my hair and painted my room, I went shopping A LOT lol I basically got a fresh start but I did get over him entirely and I can say that I am truly happy, I'm in a really good spot in my life and I'm really glad he's no longer in it.0