Hi everyone. I was in a relationship for 6 years with the love of my life. He broke up with me last July, he text me and ended it, he said "I'm done with you f*ck off and just leave me alone" so for weeks I did try and talk to him but he wanted to do with me. It was over and that was it. Also he went away for a month with his friend in may.. he was home June 29 and broke up with me the 2nd of July! He became friends with a girl (she's a lesbian) the last year of us being together he never let me meet her.. and now she has moved into his place with him and his family straight after he broke up with me.. he does everything that Me and him never did together with her. He only lives 5 mins away from me it's awful. I cry every day. I self harmed a few months after he broke up with Me because I wanted to wipe away the pain he caused me. I burned myself. I have a box with his pictures and letters in it and when I get sad I turn on mine and his song and read them all. I'm so heartbroken I just miss him so much. I haven't heard from him since he dumped 9 months ago. He unblocked me from WhatsApp.. which makes it worse his.. I don't no why he did that! I was his first love and he was mine. I miss his voice.. his smell.. I feel like I'm being haunted.. I get Flash backs of us together.. I feel like I put on a brave face everyday for my family and friends but inside I'm crumbling. I wish I could go back in time and be with him again. And I no its weird because he did treat me so horrible the last year but I can't seem to move on and let him go... I dunno how much more I can cry, it hurts me when I hear his name or see his pictures. He was like my drug... I feel worse now that he's gone on me 😢 anyone any advice? He's 24 and I'm 23.
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Best i can say it's that it will heal in time. Nothing goes away easy in this life, especially this.
When me & my ex-wife divorced, was hard, life and everything, the pain was devastating, but as time passed i was letting go of it little by little. I guess for me the the trigger to heal was the constant hatred towards her.
So aye i did avoid all the places i could meet her! Yet still she was not completely avoidable so i made peace with that. Just moved on. Started going out more different places, new people to meet. I dated different girls.
Took me a year to let go of the sadness. Second year to calm down the hatred & the rage.
Third to be the man who i am today.
Just believe in yourself & let go!
I know it's hard but listen going back will hurt even more.
I wish you the best of luck in all.1