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Best i can say it's that it will heal in time. Nothing goes away easy in this life, especially this.
When me & my ex-wife divorced, was hard, life and everything, the pain was devastating, but as time passed i was letting go of it little by little. I guess for me the the trigger to heal was the constant hatred towards her.
So aye i did avoid all the places i could meet her! Yet still she was not completely avoidable so i made peace with that. Just moved on. Started going out more different places, new people to meet. I dated different girls.
Took me a year to let go of the sadness. Second year to calm down the hatred & the rage.
Third to be the man who i am today.
Just believe in yourself & let go!
I know it's hard but listen going back will hurt even more.
I wish you the best of luck in all.