How to stop getting jealous when getting over someone?
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Well, let's look at this objectively. You know that by being in contact with him it brings you pain, but why are you subjecting yourself to it? The most probable answer is because you still want to know how's he doing, to maybe see a life worse than yours to make you feel a little better and that's perfectly normal and ok. It's hard to start caring less over someone, but the only way to stop that is to delete him. An in terms of him thinking that by unadding him on Snapchat will show your weakness, to me it shows maturity and bravery. It tells me that you know when to cut all lose ties and to know when you need to focus on yourself. If you know fully well that he is talking to girls and posting it on Snapchat to hurt you, ask yourself, is that the type of person you want? The most probable answer is no, what he is doing is hurting you and that is something you should NEVER subject yourself to. My dear, I can't tell you how to stop jealousy overall, if I knew I would of used it by now. It's hard and I get that, let yourself be jealous but use it to fuel on building yourself, showing to yourself that you can live a life without him. A best way to stop jealously is to 1) realize the source of jealously 2) Find a way to calm yourself and rationalize 3) Use that to move on. First thing, is to delete all contact. Trust me, you'll be a lot more happier, and there is no quick way to get over someone. Let yourself grieve, accept it, and never distract, rather build. Good luck, 'm 3 months post breakup. So dw, you're not alone ^__^. If you have any questions, I'm here to help
Well seeing him all the time on Sn is not helping you. Personally it doesn't matter what he thinks, to move on you should delete him off sn. Try and cut him out of your life until you are over him.
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