Please help!!! What do you make of this text? Is it wrong for me to say those things. I'm tired of being walked all over. Will this text change that?
What Guys Said 5
Sometimes you have to scream and yell in order to get your feelings across especially when it looks like you're talking to someone who doesn't care and/or is underappreciating you. I think you should send it if you haven't already! It's blunt, but true. I feel for your pain. If he doesn't respond then the thing is you have to walk away. Don't say you will and then turn around and stay because that tells him that you can't keep your word and you're flaky. You deserve to be treated with respect and love. Also, don't feel bad if he doesn't respond. Yes it'll hurt no doubt, but you have done all you can. This is your final scream to him. If he ignores it then just move on. you've done all you can do the rest is up to him. I'd say give like a day or two to respond since it is a heavy text. In the time frame don't initiate talking with him. Let him come to you. If you here nothing, move on, take your time to heal, and get back out there! There is a guy out there who wants to treat you right, who wants to love you and care for you! I hope this helps. I wish you the best!
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I just went through something very similar. I told her in a short simple text that I will not be treated badly. I will not be ignored. That I'm better than that. She responded and told me she was sorry and took responsibility for the whole thing failing. That I need someone who treats me better. She didn't even fight for me knowing she's wrong. It was hard but I ignored her in the end. Been a few weeks and it gets easier.
Don't say it...
Just ignore that person.
Walk away silently without saying a word.
That's the best thing you could do.
Not really keep it short an to the point
Don't send it. Consider it off your chest now that you've told us. The first and the last sentence are all he will act upon, and not in the way you want. Those simply amount to an admission that you're open to him stringing you along again. You're practically begging him to message you, give you a glimmer of hope, and use you. Then he'll repeat his past behavior the first chance he gets.
I know that's not what you intend to say. I know that's not the content of your message. But that is how it will be received. He may feel guilty for 10 minutes, tops.
My advice: freeze him out completely. You deserve someone who will reciprocate with as much energy as you put in. I wish you every happiness.
What Girls Said 3
Yeah I wouldn't send it if I were you. Even if he did reply, do you really think it's possible for him to change and stop treating you this way? He could just say some stuff he doesn't mean to keep you around... I'd just move on from him. From what it seems, he doesn't deserve you
There's an ultimatum in your very first sentence (?). It screams despair.
And, no, I don't think this text (or any other) will change anything if you don' change yourself and an attitude toward yourself first. Tc
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