so I broke up with my ex 4 months ago.. I still have feelings for him but he doesn't seem to have any !! we're in long distance relationship so we broke up on the phone actually.. next week I'm going to meet up with him.. but I really don't know what to say or what to do.. I don't want him to precive me as a desperate girl.. I really wish us meeting means new beginning.. I'm the one who asked to meet up.. but he quickly said yes and he doesn't mind it at all.. ! what should I talk about and what if he bring the conversation about the break up as If he's telling me that this is better for us or what ever !
Meeting my ex.. next week?
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I read the other response, so I know you're probably going to hate my response.
Don't treat this as a temporary pause, it's a breakup. Treating it like a temporary pause instead of the breakup it is, that's being in denial. You'll never move on if you are in denial and hold out hope for him. Plus, when he moves on and has a long term relationship with someone else it'll hurt that much more.
If you aren't ready to talk about it, let him know that you aren't ready if he brings it up. But you do need to deal with this problem eventually. You can't keep running away from it, don't be like an ostrich, burying your head in the sand to try to ignore reality. It's okay if you need time but eventually you do need to come back and deal with reality.1
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