Text him now, wait, or let it go?

So my boyfriend of three years and I broke up almost exactly 2 weeks ago.

To be honest, I don't feel sad anymore. But I do value him so much as a person and want to salvage things if possible.

It was a messy breakup, and I acted totally batshit crazy and emotional. For months before we broke up tbh.

His birthday was a couple days ago.. should I text or wait? I've been keeping busy with work, friends, and just started therapy.. but I don't want to let grass grow between us.

Is it smarter to give the situation more time or to strike while the iron is hot? Or just walk away? We really did love one another :(
Text him now, wait, or let it go?
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