So my boyfriend of three years and I broke up almost exactly 2 weeks ago.
To be honest, I don't feel sad anymore. But I do value him so much as a person and want to salvage things if possible.
It was a messy breakup, and I acted totally batshit crazy and emotional. For months before we broke up tbh.
His birthday was a couple days ago.. should I text or wait? I've been keeping busy with work, friends, and just started therapy.. but I don't want to let grass grow between us.
Is it smarter to give the situation more time or to strike while the iron is hot? Or just walk away? We really did love one another :(
Most Helpful Guy
Look, first of all what you wanna do with him is tell him exactly what you said here, that you acted totally batshit crazy and emotional. Apologize if you feel that you have to. Then, tell him that you dont want to let grass grow between you two.
I can tell you care about him and to be honest, its only been 2 weeks, thats nothing.
So dont wait for miracles and contact him, the way you say things seems like you two will get back together.0
Most Helpful Girl
I don't see anything wrong with wishing him a happy belated Birthday and if he wants to keep talking, great. If not, let it go0