To be honest, I don't feel sad anymore. But I do value him so much as a person and want to salvage things if possible.
It was a messy breakup, and I acted totally batshit crazy and emotional. For months before we broke up tbh.
His birthday was a couple days ago.. should I text or wait? I've been keeping busy with work, friends, and just started therapy.. but I don't want to let grass grow between us.
Is it smarter to give the situation more time or to strike while the iron is hot? Or just walk away? We really did love one another :(
Most Helpful Guy
1) why did you break up?
2) can you (and him) just be friends
3) do you want to talk because you value his friendship or because you need an ego boost from someone?
4) whatever the answer to those questions is, 2 weeks is probably too short of a time to see the situation from a mature POV
Hope you are not offended by anything I said
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Most Helpful Girl
I don't see anything wrong with wishing him a happy belated Birthday and if he wants to keep talking, great. If not, let it go