I told him I can't see him if we're not together because it will just get us nowhere. We both had a mutual break up, mainly because he made no effort & is quite selfish.
2 months ago he text me that he hopes I'm ok. I said I was & I hope he's ok too. A few days later he says I look nice in my pic. Then a couple of days ago he said "hey hope you're well x" and I said I was ok and asked how things are with him & he replies that he's very well & he's glad that I'm ok and put a smiley face. I said I'm glad things are good.
We broke up a year ago (seeing each other after that a few times). So what's his deal? He hasn't been in another relationship since. He's 33 & likes his own company so is a bit of a loner.
Does he still want a hold on me as an ego thing? He still wanted to be affectionate & everything after we broke up.
Most Helpful Guy
He still wants something from you. You haven't talked enough about your previous relationship (before splitting) to know if he actually wants you back. But this is one of two things: manipulation for his own gain, or a genuine attempt to get you back. Either way, if the reasons for you two splitting are still present, my advice would simply be not to respond. If he's anything like me, he wouldn't let on to what he really wants even if you asked him straight up.0
Most Helpful Girl
ignore him, he's trying to get back in your pants0