He then ended it with me, just plucking things out of thin air to disagree with me. I went to see him to talk and he said go away and then told me he didn't love me anymore, this man was holding my hand only five days ago telling me everything will be ok and that we can focus on each other. I went home upset, I don't believe he doesn't love me anymore. He text to say don't contact me anymore so I haven't, as heartbreaking as it is I can't chase him. I've done that already. I'm feeling so low that I lost baby and him in less than a week.
Yesterday out the blue he texts me to wish my daughter a happy birthday. I haven't responded. From a male point of view is that just his guilt, or he's trying to show respect for walking out my children's lives or is it a message hoping I'll respond so he can converse with me?
I don't know what to do but leave him to it. He's now set up a dating profile so I guess this man means business. Any thoughts really appreciate it?
also he suffers with anxiety and depression so our relationship has been a rollercoaster due to this
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sounds like he has something lie bipolar or borderline personality dissorder as well (but I could be entirely wrong). Some women blame theirselfs for miscarriage.. I hope you know that this isn't your fault. I hate the fact that he acts this way because this must be so difficult for you.. I honestly have no idea what he was trying to do with the happy birthday message. I would just talk to him so you both know where you stand. Ignoring him is only going to leave confusion between you two.
I hope everything will be alright.
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