I found out exactly who my ex slept with and it sucks!! She's a friend of a friend, and while I've never met her, she actually seems like a nice person. I also know I can't be mad at him because we broke up back in January, and I called it off. What do I do now to not dwell on it? Please spare me the whole "ex is ex, why do you care" spiel! Also, word to the wise: NEVER talk to you exes about what (or who) you do after your break up unless it's YEARS later and you honestly don't care anymore. Curiosity and cats and all that...
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You should try to concentrate on yourself more. Hit gym more. Work more. Whatever you can do to keep yourself busy. You could also try some casual dating.
Weekend getaway in some natural places could also be a very good substitute. When i was feeling like this, i found that volunteering in an animal shelter was very helpful.0