I don't think about my ex that much and I'm not upset about the breakup anymore but I can't help but feel like I don't want to date anyone else because I'm not over her. Everytime I look at another girl, that's really attractive, I don't get the urge to talk to her or want anything to do with her. It's been a while since the breakup and our relationship wasn't that close or intimate. Are there any guys that feel this way? It's as if I'm over her but not at the same time.
Guys, how do you know you're over your ex girlfriend?
What Girls Said 1
Do you not want to talk to her because you compare her to your ex and she comes up lacking or do you not want to talk to her because you're scared of getting into another relationship and getting hurt? If it's the former, you're not over your ex and although you say you don't think about her that much, you are thinking about her. You need to remind yourself that each person is different, when you realize you compare her to your ex, stop yourself and try to get to know the girl for who she is and learn what makes her unique and special. If it's the latter, you might be over her, you probably just need to be in a place where you're ready again to trust.0
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What Guys Said 2
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