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No, the ex is an ex for a reason. Sometimes I wonder or want to get back with them (never when I'm dating someone else, it's usually a weak moment I have when I'm single and feeling a tad lonely) and then I remind myself that we broke up for a reason and sure they might agree to get back together with me but then we'd just break up again for the same reason we broke up the first time. Exes are part of your relationship past, move on, don't look back.
what makes you think you would broke up agin for the same reason? my friend is married to her ex
They're the exception to the rule. I know people who got back together with an ex and are happy but they're the minority. Just like I know people who take back a cheating partner and they have fixed and improved their relationship, but once again a minority. Nothing in life is a sure thing but personally I would not choose to risk my heart in something that is likely to not work out. So I would never take back an ex (unless we broke up for something like, neither of us wanted to do ldr but the relationship itself was fine).
Also, if you're happy with who you are currently dating, you wouldn't wonder about getting back with your ex since you know your current girlfriend is better than anything you had with your ex or will ever have with your ex.
Nothing wrong with how u feel and nothing wrong with how I feel giving what happened to my past relationships but only thinly of it once in a blue moon
I mean, a friend and I were having this conversation, if it's just a random stray thought, it doesn't mean anything, but if you indulge in the fantasy, that's where we both agreed we'd wonder if the person is truly happy in their relationship. Most people get those random stray thoughts, but we don't pay heed to them and dismiss them immediately. When I am saying, wonder about getting back with your ex, I am saying fantasizing, indulging that thought. Still, personally I'd never get back together with an ex, I don't fancy those odds, but to each their own and every situation and every couple is different. The pros of getting back were never enough to outweigh the cons for me.
Nope. Usually when it's something like that often times it's unfinished business
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