hey guys.. i broke up with my girlfriend a week ago.. i can't say im jaded but i feel sad.. to be exact I've seen her 2 times since we broke up and we chat from time time so i can't be sure how i will be when i lose her for good. i tried several times to get back together but she insists that we dont have any future together.. she also says though that she still likes me and loves me. so the big guestion.. what should i do? do be releastic we had lots of fights and sex wasn't very good but i feel that i can't lose her.. maybe im weak and i dont really want her but i dont know.. any how if i want to win her back what should i do? do u think i have enough hopes or not?
Most Helpful Girl
Sex is really important, i say that because if you don't satisfy her she's going to look for someone that will excite her same with you, fights are little issues that can be dealt with communication. Think really good if you want something serious before you try getting back with her and hurting her
Don't be selfish in holding her back just because you don't want to loose her or see her go0
Most Helpful Guy
It's hard to say if she's playing with your feelings or if she genuinely has concerns from what you're saying but I would be respectful of her choices. The fact you had an apparently good relationship together is something that should hold you both together however she wants to be single again but naturally has feelings for you. Agree to take a break from now but reassure her that you are always there for her as a friend and as much as that hurts you, you'll deal with it. However actions speak louder than words so don't then go and disrespect her in any way.0