-It was my first long-term relationship
-The guy was my best friend and kindest person I knew
-We talked every day
-The breakup came out of nowhere
-He ended up dumping me
-He avoided me for months afterwards
-When I finally was able to reach him, he kept telling me lies about why the relationship ended
-One of his friends told me he had actually been planning on dumping me for a while and he just hadn't gotten around to it
-I still don't know why he ended things
-I suppressed it for a long time and now the emotions have come back full swing
-I see him often and can not change that
-I have removed all traces of the relationship from my life
-He has been in relationships since, I have not
Most Helpful Guy
Me and my ex broke up, never got a single answer as to why either.
All i know is that love was weak even though i was strong with it.
Sometimes it is best not to look for an answer and just let things be. People act like sadness and remorse is something you cannot carry the rest of your life. Like it hinders on success but in reality, it is what brings you closer to earth, closer to reality and closer to being a strong version of yourself.
I would say you are over him but you are not willing to accept it.
Most Helpful Girl
Do something selfish for yourself everyday, whether that's eating a sweet treat, taking yourself somewhere like a conservatory or a cafe, just take yourself out. You need to reinvest in yourself what you invested in him. Relationships are rough and losing a loved one hurts, you have to mourn it like a death.
Use this break up as fuel for yourself. Since you're under 18, look at university or college or trade programs. Invest yourself in your studies and in turn you'll be taking care of yourself far better than he ever did.