okay so long story short, about a week ago i ended things with a guy who cared a lot in the beginning but didn't give a shit about me towards the end. and he didn't seem to care that i let him go. but now i'm here dying to text him and talk to him knowing damn well he's a piece of shit. i just feel stupid for wanting someone who doesn't care about me so bad. what are some things you guys did to get over people and get over this initial stage?
Most Helpful Guy
Not long have I been in this situation. I've had a crush on a girl for a long time and she didn't give me attention (don't ask about me, sends short texts, etc) I kept trying and trying with her to a point where I became desperate. Like even if I had a slight chance with her I probably ruined it by trying to contact her because she didn't deserve my attention and I didn't get her obvious signs. Anyway, fast forward, I realized that I should stop this and SERIOUSLY move on. I act like she doesn't exist. I try to talk to other girls and have fun with my life, I learned my lesson with her because that's important.2
Most Helpful Girl
This sounds like my situation 100% .. hello there nice to meet you we're in the same situation. Sweet heart , don't strain yourself over someone who doesn't care when you walk out the door because it all sums up that they never cared. Don't feel stupid for wanting to put the effort into someone who doesn't care about you as much as you care for them. If someone can't meet you half way you know what happens? You end up getting yourself in a sticky situation which you'll be emotional tied to in the end. It's not healthy and even if he replies.. forgive him but let him go because he's not worth it at all. Fight against temptation. You get over it by not letting them back in whenever they come back. I don't know what you do to get over someone that's not right for you? But I pray because what's not right will always make a left.0