okay so long story short, about a week ago i ended things with a guy who cared a lot in the beginning but didn't give a shit about me towards the end. and he didn't seem to care that i let him go. but now i'm here dying to text him and talk to him knowing damn well he's a piece of shit. i just feel stupid for wanting someone who doesn't care about me so bad. what are some things you guys did to get over people and get over this initial stage?
Most Helpful Guy
Not long have I been in this situation. I've had a crush on a girl for a long time and she didn't give me attention (don't ask about me, sends short texts, etc) I kept trying and trying with her to a point where I became desperate. Like even if I had a slight chance with her I probably ruined it by trying to contact her because she didn't deserve my attention and I didn't get her obvious signs. Anyway, fast forward, I realized that I should stop this and SERIOUSLY move on. I act like she doesn't exist. I try to talk to other girls and have fun with my life, I learned my lesson with her because that's important.2
Most Helpful Girl
i found all his flaws and kept going over and over it with my friends till iy sunk in. i developed a complete understanding of what exactly it was, i kept going through it till i knew it myself. now i want him to see how much better off i am without him, i dont miss him, but i still check to see if he messaged me because i want him to miss me out of pettiness. he is a dick though, i realize the best thing that happened to me was him breaking up with me i wished now i ha ended it months before instead of enduring1