So my boyfriend and I have been together 6 years. We have had a great relationship so far no cheating or anything never any breaks or nothing. But about a week ago I called him. I asked him why haven't he called me in 2 days. His response was that he doesn't have time to think about a relationship because he need to get his life together because he is getting older and he doesn't have a job or any money. I have 2 jobs and I don't wanna day he is jealous but he always throws it in my face that I have 2 jobs and I should be happy that I'm not broke. I constantly help him with job apps and everything. But he doesn't put in any effort at all! So when I talked to him a week ago he was fussing saying he doesn't have time anymore and to think what I want to think about the situation and he hanged the phone up in my face. We haven't talked since. What should I do. I am giving him his space but he said he is not thinking about a relationship and when I try to comfort and talk to him he didn't wanna hear it. It was out of no where. How can we not talk for 2 days then when I ask where has he been he gets mad, fuss me out then hangs up. What should I do? Should I just leave him alone?
Should I just move on after almost 7 years?
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I want to stick it out and make it better but he is always pushing me away. He has had jobs before but for the last year he hasn't. And he has lost out on jobs because he smokes weed. I have been begging him for these 6 years to stop. He told me he has but I really don't know for sure. I trust him but he always lie about him stop smoking. So I don't know. But I just don't know what to do. Maybe he is tired of me. Maybe he just wanna focus on his life and do new things. This is all so shocking to me because we were good. Then when he wasn't calling I was worried. I was calling him but no answers or texts back. And now we haven't talked for a week. That's the longest time we ever went without talking to each other. I don't know what to do