Would it make you worry they didn't ever care about the relationship?
Most Helpful Guy
I did that at one point. it wasn't actually her breaking up with me. It is complicated to explain and honestly I still do not completely understand what happened. Traumatizing to say the least.
But I simply "died" for her. No contact whatsoever, removed everyone that was a link with her from my life (quite easy since we studied together, so I had to stop talking to the colleagues and voila).
I assume it hurt her like hell.
But I did not do it to hurt her.
I did it because that's what she asked for through her actions. On the other hand I believe she was expecting me to be the one chasing (again). Did not happen as I shut her down one day. Pressed the red button.
Plus because of the whole situation, I started to act reckless for a while and curse each day I was waking up. So the fact that I removed everything related to her from my life, was a relief. It was like an addiction on the short run, but the road to recovery on the long run.
Most Helpful Girl
As sucky as it is, if someone broke up with you, I'm pretty sure they wouldn't really be bothered or concerned with how you feel/felt considering they just dumped you and don't want you romantically anymore.
But it's still a good idea regardless to be composed for sure.