Opposed to crying and begging and trying to convince you that you can make it work they turn around and just delete you from their life.
Would it make you worry they didn't ever care about the relationship?
Most Helpful Guy
I did that at one point. it wasn't actually her breaking up with me. It is complicated to explain and honestly I still do not completely understand what happened. Traumatizing to say the least.
But I simply "died" for her. No contact whatsoever, removed everyone that was a link with her from my life (quite easy since we studied together, so I had to stop talking to the colleagues and voila).
I assume it hurt her like hell.
But I did not do it to hurt her.
I did it because that's what she asked for through her actions. On the other hand I believe she was expecting me to be the one chasing (again). Did not happen as I shut her down one day. Pressed the red button.
Plus because of the whole situation, I started to act reckless for a while and curse each day I was waking up. So the fact that I removed everything related to her from my life, was a relief. It was like an addiction on the short run, but the road to recovery on the long run.1
Most Helpful Girl
Of course ! I sent a message about that to the person who just so called "gave up". The words that were said is like ashes that were blown in the wind because it's non-existent along with the person who said it. I question everything from start to finish. I don't expect a reaction of them begging because everyone handles a breakup differently but if I do receive the "I don't care" attitude then I'll question the whole entire relationship. I'm very blunt and don't hold back on my words so I express my thoughts and block the person afterwards.1