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First you need to ask yourself why it is that you want to get back with your ex. Is it just because you want him or is it because you both are willing to work out your differences? If he is not actively seeking to get the relationship back but you are, you would be chasing him which would push him away. Also you need to ask yourself if the relationship was healthy. If the relationship did not make you feel good or if you had to do all it most of the work then I don't see why you'd want to go back to that relationship. You deserve far better!