This guy liked me and I lead him on because I was stupid and confused the "I like u as a person and as a friend" with actual romantic interest. In the last 5 days he seem to like me way more than I like him. Already saying I'm crazy for him, I'm his, I can't run away because he holds me. And so on. We dont text or talk in those 5 days he just holds me so is just physical and little contact.
This past 3 days I been distant, not letting him touch me or be to close. Now he never ask me out. And now that I'm distant but close (cuz I still care for him as a friend). Anyways today he said if I liked to go to somewhere expensive. And I rejected the offer, it seem like everyone took it as a joke so I don't know if he was serious.
But yea. How do I turn him down? What should I say? Not in text cuz thats cold although it would be easy for me since I dont have to see him. Specially since in his mind he thinks I'm crazy in love with him which I'm not.
Most Helpful Guy
Why not just say this? Why does either sex avoid saying what they're thinking in these situations? You're worried about his feelings, not yours at all for some reason. I'd rather be bumped by being told the actual reason than be dumped by being told something like its just not going to work out, or whatever.0
Most Helpful Girl
you need to be direct because he's wrapped up in an emotional bubble. Sit him down, be kind but be direct. Good luck0