I get mixed opinions on this..
I don't mind if a girl leaves me for another guy, A lot of times the first question asked is, are you not p*ssed off? If you love them you'd be really angry! I say, no... If I actually care about them and their feelings I'd be happy for them. I mean if being with someone else makes them happy I'm not going to be a selfish jerk about it and drag her down because I can't cope with it. I mean sure I'm upset/sad but I'm not going to let it get me down and I'm not going to tell everyone that I'm sad or p*ssed off. A lot of people just say to me, would I not like to punch the guy, or slag the girl off? I mean geez why would I? It's not his fault she likes him and not her fault he likes her.
I don't see why people think it's weird, As I said yes I'm upset, but I'm not angry. I just accept it and move on, I'm not going to mope about it either... Again I don't see why after I break up with someone that I have to remain single for a certain amount of time. If they expect me to cry over them for months how selfish does that make them? I just try to get on with things and find the next great person.
Sorry if it's a bit ranty, I just had an evening discussing this... I've probably forgotten some, so I might add an update later.
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HAHA. I thought I was weird to be like that too. I don't fuss over breakups. In fact, I'd just move on and I've never wanted to drag anyone down just because they decided to leave me. I think doing something like that is selfish because it'd be all about you. Your feelings. Your loss. Your shame. Your ego. etc. If someone doesn't want to be with me anymore, I'd respect that and try to cope with it because it's his decision. Everyone knows what is best for himself. I am quite selfless when I truly love someone. I think you're like that too question asker. I also think that when you're p*ssed off when someone leaves you for another person it means that you're being insecure, uncertain and afraid. You feel like you're losing your direction and you let your fear control your emotions. I am quite in touch with my emotions so when I started to feel like that. I knock myself off and move on.1