Do you think I should tell him or keep it a secret...?
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Ok I'm going through this exact same thing now, I told this girl I had some kind of feelings for her and after a year of enjoying one anothers company, I'm like I don't exsist anymore, and its such an awful/ sad experience.
If you have a good close f/ship then you should be able to talk about how you feel and not really loose the f/ship, if they can't handle what you said and decide to walk away then what kind of friend is that in the 1st place?
If you like this bloke then tell him, but do bare in mind there is a chance he doesn't feel the same and it may alter your f/ship. Even tho it appears I haven't managed to keep my f/ship with this girl (and yeah I do miss talking to her) I had to tell her how I felt, there is nothing worse than plodding along thinking "what if", if he says yes he feels the same then great, if not then you know where you stand and at least you were honest and told him how you felt about him, you can then move on knowing you don't have to live with the "what if" anymore.
Its a gamble like everything in life!0